Life is full of silly walks and dead parrots

Well April has come and gone. Had a blast at Pub Italia and Summerhays for my bday. Was quite the gong show, soooo glad my parents watched Ava the next day. Ava and I went for lunch with my friend Trish from high school. Was great seeing her again and catching up :) Went to game 3 of the playoffs, Ottawa vs Pitt, with my friend Roy. Seeing a playoff game live is quite the experience. Had a blast even though the Sens lost. Finally heard from a daycare, was getting worried since I have to go back to work at the beg of July. It's in the glebe on 5th Ave near the canal. Super nice place and the staff are really friendly, so of course I said yes. Applied for my subsidy and I only have to pay 46$ a month towards daycare. Sooo happy since the reg monthly amount for an infant is 1700$.
Had a great Mother's day with the fam. Didn't do to much during the day, way to cold. Had lobster and mussels for dinner.

Well douche has been his usual self. Received a facebook chat msg from his asking to see Ava. I replied back that I would have to talk to my lawyer. He replied "Even for something personal?....." Then it dawned on my what he was really after. Like seriously???? trying again and using his daughter to get it. Especially since my lawyer sent him a letter saying all communication is to go through them if he wants to see her. Have I heard anything from my lawyer about setting up a visit??? nope nadda. So obv don't think he really wanted to see her. The next stunt he pulled was taking some pics of her from my profile album and posting them on this wall. Each pic had comments like "Daddy's princess..., beautiful blue eyes like her dad..." UNFUCKING BELIEVABLE trying to make himself look like the dotting father he's NOT. Probably trying to pick up or impress some chick. Pics are deleted so they are not on his wall anymore. If he wants pics of her for himself he can ask through my lawyer. Obv that won't happen since he would only want them for some ulterior motive ie trying to pick up chicks.

Well that's it for now
Later!

Man i suck at this blog thing. Always forgetting to post, oh well lol

Well February was a pain. He actually did show up to court, even though he never responded to any of the papers they sent him. So i was pretty shocked when I arrived and saw him sitting there. The kicker was he brought some chick with him lol Like who seriously brings there gf or present piece of ass to court???? Esp when its a custody/support case. What an idiot. So when it gets to our case he actually says he's contesting the DNA test we did back in August, saying I faked it. If I had ANY other choice obv I would've taken it. Don't exactly want to be stuck dealing with him for the rest of my life. Not much else for Feb. Being at home I was able to watch most of the Olympics. The final Gold medal hockey game was awesome. Ava and I went to watch it at my brothers house.

Hmmm March hasn't really been that eventful. Was DD for my brothers birthday, was fun going out with him and his friends. But i didn't last as long as they did lol So I was only DD for the beginning. My lawyers office called the other day and surprise surprise he IS her father. What a shocker! Going to be interesting to see what kind of shit he'll pull next. Just want this whole thing done and over with. I've started the job hunt. Can't go back to shift work as a single mom, it's not fair to Ava. I've applied to a few gov't jobs,hopefully I can get something. Mon-Fri, great pay, benefits and pension.

My birthday is coming up soon! Figure for my actual bday I'll have dinner with some friends at Pub Italia. So love that place, been going there for years. My friend has her bday on the same day and is celebrating hers at Lonestar on the Saturday. Once Ava is down and my parents are fine with watching her I'll stop by for a bit. Well that's pretty much it for now.

Well.....it has definitely been an uber long time since I last blogged.

End of December

Well for the rest of December I tried to hang out with my bff Stephen as much as humanly possible before he moved out West. Had a big dinner at my parents house, so he could see them one last time. Laura and I went to the airport to see him off on the 28th. Can't wait till I can save money and take Ava to visit him in Calgary!!!

Christmas was nice and relaxing. Just spent it with my parents, bro and Ava. Haha was soooo cute watching her open presents. Eating wrapping paper was the extent of her opening gifts. And of course she had TONS of presents. Boxing day Ava and I went for lunch with a bunch of co-workers to Lone Star. Was good seeing everyone from work again. Though a few have found better jobs lol The next day the fam went over to my Uncle and Aunts house for a late xmas gathering. My cousin was in town so we had the dinner then. New Years didn't do anything to crazy. Went to Laura's place for a bit then obv ended up at Summerhays. Soooooo sick of that place.....but it keeps dragging ya back. Let loose and drank so needless to say I was not feeling super great the next day.

January

Well Ava had her 6 month check up and shots at the beg of the month. She is growing like a weed. Getting super long. And she has discovered shrieking and babbling at the top of her lungs. Quite fun..... She's gone through most veg with no reactions. So made a whole bunch of pureed veg and froze it. Going through fruits and she's not a fan...weird.

Chrissy had baby Hailey on the 10th :) Soooo happy for her. Hailey's such a gorgeous lil girl. Visited her while she was in the hospital. And wow does Hailey have TONS of hair. When Chrissy was finally home Laura, Ava and I stopped by for a visit. We were discussing who was going to corrupt who 1st.....haha 6 mths apart. They will be trouble! Went and saw Avatar!!!!!! BEST MOVIE EVER!! Effin awesome, it gave me goose pimples lol

Well douches 30 day time limit was up on the wkd of the 9th. No response to my lawyer or the courts. But..... she said if she did her from a lawyer she would have to grant him an extension. But obv nobody heard anything and the court date is Feb 2nd. And if he does show up the courts may grant him an extension to file his papers. And that royally pisses me off. I know they want to give them every benefit of the doubt......but he sooo doesn't deserve any! He's gone out of his way to abandon his daughter, wants nothing to do with her and pay support. Yet they are willing to give him any break he can get. But again that's if he shows up on tues. REALLY REALLY hope he doesn't show up. Don't want to see him or deal with him. But have a feeling he won't. Would have to explain to Daddy dearest why he wants the whole day off. Figure he still hasn't told his fam. They prolly would've made him get a lawyer and I would've heard something like "why are you doing this to our son??? blah blah" Just want to get tues over with. If he's a no show my lawyer will file for an uncontested trial and it will go on ahead without him. I'll get the custody I want and he'll still get fucked over and have to pay support.

Well that's it for Dec and Jan. Didn't really do to much else that's noteworthy. Ohh yes I got one of those wooden sleds for Ava. When it's a tad warmer I want to pull her on the canal during Winterlude :)